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The Biggest #1 Secret To Attracting Women - What Wealthy Men Know That You Don't
You just really need to understand one point if you understand absolutely nothing about women or how to pick up and seduce women. You just really need to understand THE one biggest secret to attracting women that all successful guys typically have and losers do not.
- James Bond has it
- Movie and sports stars have it
- Rich guys have it
- Guy that understand how to attract women have it
- YOU could even have it
What is this magic secret that can transform you from zero to hero like a Hogwarts spell? Liquor? Meditation ? Pheromones extracted from the Tasmanian devil? It is something called CONFIDENCE.
CONFIDENCE? WHAT CONFIDENCE?
If you scrutinize successful or wealthy guys, they have a certain ambiance, a certain authority, a certain swagger, a certain confidence. They exhibit confidence in their body language, their voice intonations, and the way they communicate with women. Successful guys have an inherent high sense of value and are not afraid of women or being rejected simply because of the experiences and successes that got them their high level of natural confidence.
THE CONCEPT OF PERCEIVED VALUE
Aside from puppy love and teenage crushes, what attracts a woman to a guy is not his appearances, wealth, success, charm, or his incredible conversational abilities. Intuitively, what attracts a woman to a guy is his value. While for guys, a woman's value initially is simply how hot she looks, for a woman, it's more complicated on an instinctive level. A woman, particularly a desirable woman, has a precise sense of her intrinsic value. She understands precisely what she is worth and what level of a guy she has the ability to attract. Typically, the higher the woman thinks of herself, the greater the level of guys she is going to attempt to attract.
This principle of the way the woman thinks of herself is her perceived value. What she thinks of a guy is her perceived value of that guy. A woman will be attracted to a guy ONLY if her perceived value of him is above her own value. There is a well-known myth saying that a woman, upon meeting a guy, instantly judges whether she will sleep with him or not. While this is only partially true IMO, the woman IS GOING TO determine unconsciously if your value is greater that hers or not, thereby being attracted to you.
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN IN THE SCHEME OF THINGS?
The concept of perceived value means that you have to show the woman that your value is above hers. This is called "demonstrating your value" in pickup artist parlance. Before you have an opportunity to demonstrate your value, you initially have to approach the woman and get in the door and actually have her interested in what you have to say. The moment you go up to a woman, the only basis of judgement of your value will be your level of confidence.
The greater your confidence, the greater your perceived value will be. With greater perceived value, you could attract the hotter women. Now the only problem is if you're not wealthy, successful, powerful, or Bond, just how precisely do you ooze confidence that women find so tempting?